What a Writer Needs Part 3

What a Writer Needs Part 3

October 9, 2016

Two of my top tools to teach were: Grammar exercises:www.miguelmllop.com, and Advanced Composition for non-natives of English: http://eslbee.com. I was very disappointed when I found out that eslbee was discontinued. It was one of the best tools for my composition classes. That is where I found this “Why You Should Communicate Effectively.” That is exactly one of the Tops for Writers. 

Along with

What a Writer Needs Part 1

What a Writer Needs Part 2

AND

The 4 P's - My 4 Allies

Establishing and developing effective communication is important in order to be Heard and change your environment according to your own thoughts. No one will guess what you want or what you think if you don’t tell them, and nothing is going to change if you do not propose a change. The purpose of this essay is to discuss four important skills that will help you communicate effectively. Such skills are not to to be afraid of speaking, alaways defend what you want to say, express exactly what you mean to say, and listen while you are not speaking.

The first aspect to communicate effectively is NOT to be afraid of speaking. Anytime you need tos ay something, go ahead and do it. Most of the times people are afraid of speaking because they are not sure if it is the right thing to say and/or the right momento to say it. Be sure, say what you want tos ay, and DO NOT regret it. If you speak you will be Heard and taken into account. You are important so you need to be heard. There is one thing you should NOT DO somehow; DO NOT say something that will hurt somebody’s feelings. Unless that something has to be said inevitably, say it, but as softly and gently as you can. NEVER hurt anyone intentionally. Always think twice before saying something. You choose what to 

say, just be sure to say the right ting at the right time. If you do that, you won’t regret a thing.

Second, if you want to communicate effectively, defend what you say. Once you have said something you can never go backward; you must back it up. The worst thing that you can do when speaking is to hesitate. Hesitance means self-insecurity and this means weakness. The strength of your words will surely determine their effect on the listener. The way that you speak and the content of your speech tell a lot about yourself and your personality. A conversation allows speakers and listeners to get to know each other better. Besides people will only know what you say; they cannot go any further if you do not let them. It is only by means of intelligence, strength, and security that you will be able to change the world around you. And, it is also by means of intelligence, strength, and security that you will be heard and taken into account.

The third and main aspect of effective communication is to express exactly what you mean tos ay. Pick up the words that will express exactly what you are thinking.