Reality
Today I woke up asking myself this,
"What have you done this year to reach your reality?"
"What steps have you taken to be spiritually, emotionally, personally, physically, financially, professionally fulfilled?"
"Are you taking the according steps to get you to the long-sought balance you've always yearned for?"
The truth is, I have been procrastinating on one of my 2015 victories. I can say that I am not mentally or physically prepared and a million other excuses but I can no longer keep feeding my mind with those pessimistic thoughts. Today I resolved that I must be stronger than that, put all negative emotions aside, and get a hold of myself to be able to focus. As long as I don't get past that lack of motivation I won't be game.
I keep dreaming, fantasizing over this victory but I must not want it with all my mind, heart and soul because no action is being taken whatsoever...
"Reality
is the difference between what we wish for and what is. Realistic
thinking begins with you doing your homework and getting the facts; and
it is supported by finding out what others have done in similar
circumstances. Why not learn all that you can from good thinkers who
have been where you want to go, had the same goals and were able to
realize their potential?"
~ John C. Maxwell
Spirituality, family, work and business ethics, health and fitness, charity work, reading, playing with words, reflecting and embracing the simplicity of life...
Friday, March 20, 2015
Sunday, March 8, 2015
The Beauty of a Woman
International Women´s Day
March 7, 2015
Aristotle Onassis If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning.
Ellen DeGeneres I really don't think I need buns of steel. I'd be happy with buns of cinnamon.
Joseph Conrad Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.
Mary Mcleod Bethune Whatever glory belongs to the race for a development unprecedented in history for the given length of time, a full share belongs to the womanhood of the race.
Anita Wise A lot of guys think the larger a woman's breasts are, the less intelligent she is. I don't think it works like that. I think it's the opposite. I think the larger a woman's breasts are, the less intelligent the men become.
Margaret Sanger A free race cannot be born of slave mothers.
Ville Valo Women are always beautiful.
Rudyard Kipling A woman's guess is much more accurate than a man's certainty.
Barbara Bush Somewhere out in this audience may even be someone who will one day follow in my footsteps, and preside over the White House as the President's spouse. I wish him well!
Charlotte Bunch Feminism is an entire world view or gestalt, not just a laundry list of women's issues.
Bella Abzug The test for whether or not you can hold a job should not be the arrangement of your chromosomes.
A woman is the full circle, within her is the power to create, nuture and transform…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
Even when the whole world is rushing, there are some who take time to mentor, encourage and inspire,Like you . And I’m lucky to be working with you… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
Never reject a girl in lif because a good girl gives you happiness and bad girl gives you experience,both are essential in life so enjoy every girlfriend!…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
The patience to listen,the strength to support,care is just in a woman…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY....
This world is a better place because of the presence of women.Mother,sister,daughter,friend,lover or wife…no matter what their role is…they add meaning to our existence…they bring love to our life...HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
Don’t underestimate a women,because she knows more than she say,think more than she speak and notice more than we realize… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
A women brought you into this world,so you have no right to disrespect one.. .HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,the figures that she carries,or the way she combs her hair.But,the beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,because that is the doorways to her heart.The place where love resides… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..
What really inspires me is the way you manage your personal and professional life so well!!… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY...
You have everything in you & that’s the reason why world is celebrating you…!! HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
March 7, 2015
Aristotle Onassis If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning.
Ellen DeGeneres I really don't think I need buns of steel. I'd be happy with buns of cinnamon.
Joseph Conrad Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.
Mary Mcleod Bethune Whatever glory belongs to the race for a development unprecedented in history for the given length of time, a full share belongs to the womanhood of the race.
Anita Wise A lot of guys think the larger a woman's breasts are, the less intelligent she is. I don't think it works like that. I think it's the opposite. I think the larger a woman's breasts are, the less intelligent the men become.
Margaret Sanger A free race cannot be born of slave mothers.
Ville Valo Women are always beautiful.
Rudyard Kipling A woman's guess is much more accurate than a man's certainty.
Barbara Bush Somewhere out in this audience may even be someone who will one day follow in my footsteps, and preside over the White House as the President's spouse. I wish him well!
Charlotte Bunch Feminism is an entire world view or gestalt, not just a laundry list of women's issues.
Bella Abzug The test for whether or not you can hold a job should not be the arrangement of your chromosomes.
A woman is the full circle, within her is the power to create, nuture and transform…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
Even when the whole world is rushing, there are some who take time to mentor, encourage and inspire,Like you . And I’m lucky to be working with you… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
Never reject a girl in lif because a good girl gives you happiness and bad girl gives you experience,both are essential in life so enjoy every girlfriend!…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY…..
The patience to listen,the strength to support,care is just in a woman…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY....
This world is a better place because of the presence of women.Mother,sister,daughter,friend,lover or wife…no matter what their role is…they add meaning to our existence…they bring love to our life...HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
Don’t underestimate a women,because she knows more than she say,think more than she speak and notice more than we realize… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
A women brought you into this world,so you have no right to disrespect one.. .HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,the figures that she carries,or the way she combs her hair.But,the beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,because that is the doorways to her heart.The place where love resides… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..
What really inspires me is the way you manage your personal and professional life so well!!… HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY...
You have everything in you & that’s the reason why world is celebrating you…!! HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..…
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
Rising to the occasion
Rising to the occasion
No regrets or pity
March 3rd, 2015
I have never regarded myself as a ‘professional,’ that’s why when I am often asked for some good pointers in writing, I share them but I am always left with a susceptibility of skepticism, not because I tell them wrong, because deep down I am acting on each person’s best interest. It is all in my mind, it always was, it is now, and it will always be, that’s just my nature. Amidst all that reluctance, I retaliate to challenge and improve the feeble areas to suppress my dismay and uncertainties.
My writing adroitness (one of God´s´greatest gifts to me, which I am VERY grateful for) is based on a value that correlates with empathy, rapport, affinity, compatibility, agreement, encouragement, alliance, togetherness, compassion, esprit de corps, among others. This artistry is NOT simply a matter of skill acquisition. It involves a process of personal deconstruction (internal structures) and reconstruction in dealing with each individual, case, prior experience, needs, priorities and objectives. This means that I must constantly evaluate my personal values, motives, and goals and I must be willing to make any necessary positive changes. I can become highly skilled and educated, but SANS a genuine desire to serve others, my career, one of my strongest emotional sustenances, would eventually become an unbearable burden. My goal is to genuinely serve others, entice them and persuade them to reach towards a better and more promising tomorrow.
Today, my expertise was put at stake when someone assured that I was incompetent, irresponsible, unprepared, lacked experience, and I didn´t meet the professional profile she had sought for. When I heard this woman´s unfair reclamation over the phone, (she doesn’t know me) my first reaction was anger, it later turned into frustration, then it became hurt. Emotional hurt because I felt like an incompetent idiot. I couldn´t take hearing her spit out her acrimony any longer so I ran out, straight to meet with a friend to vent out.
And I did. Now that the end of the day is drawing nearer, I am more at ease with myself. I have concluded that there aren´t any internal regrets or pity with my career choice. I predestined my job based on one of my passions, and so be it as far as I can ever go. That´s why I have risen to the occasion, decided to take this experience as ‘feedback,’ (in spite of the temporary emotional hurt) and pondered upon how to plan, strategize and deliver my message better to avoid this type of incidents in the future.
No regrets or pity
March 3rd, 2015
I have never regarded myself as a ‘professional,’ that’s why when I am often asked for some good pointers in writing, I share them but I am always left with a susceptibility of skepticism, not because I tell them wrong, because deep down I am acting on each person’s best interest. It is all in my mind, it always was, it is now, and it will always be, that’s just my nature. Amidst all that reluctance, I retaliate to challenge and improve the feeble areas to suppress my dismay and uncertainties.
My writing adroitness (one of God´s´greatest gifts to me, which I am VERY grateful for) is based on a value that correlates with empathy, rapport, affinity, compatibility, agreement, encouragement, alliance, togetherness, compassion, esprit de corps, among others. This artistry is NOT simply a matter of skill acquisition. It involves a process of personal deconstruction (internal structures) and reconstruction in dealing with each individual, case, prior experience, needs, priorities and objectives. This means that I must constantly evaluate my personal values, motives, and goals and I must be willing to make any necessary positive changes. I can become highly skilled and educated, but SANS a genuine desire to serve others, my career, one of my strongest emotional sustenances, would eventually become an unbearable burden. My goal is to genuinely serve others, entice them and persuade them to reach towards a better and more promising tomorrow.
Today, my expertise was put at stake when someone assured that I was incompetent, irresponsible, unprepared, lacked experience, and I didn´t meet the professional profile she had sought for. When I heard this woman´s unfair reclamation over the phone, (she doesn’t know me) my first reaction was anger, it later turned into frustration, then it became hurt. Emotional hurt because I felt like an incompetent idiot. I couldn´t take hearing her spit out her acrimony any longer so I ran out, straight to meet with a friend to vent out.
And I did. Now that the end of the day is drawing nearer, I am more at ease with myself. I have concluded that there aren´t any internal regrets or pity with my career choice. I predestined my job based on one of my passions, and so be it as far as I can ever go. That´s why I have risen to the occasion, decided to take this experience as ‘feedback,’ (in spite of the temporary emotional hurt) and pondered upon how to plan, strategize and deliver my message better to avoid this type of incidents in the future.
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