Tuesday, May 31, 2016

FAITH MANIFESTO

May 31st, 20116



ALWAYS choose right OVER wrong!
STRIVE FOR transparency and freedom in HEART, MIND, SOUL, AND SPIRIT with all your MIGHT!
With a  STOUT HEART LOOK tomorrow in the eye
GOD WILL PROTECT YOU IN DOING WHAT’S RIGHT***

Do I really believe?
·       That no fear or darkness can trump hope?
·       That I will see online casino bigger and better things?
·       That everything is in God’s hands and He is triumphant?
·       That everything is redeemable?
·       That Jesus can cure me, along with my family members and friends?
·       That my circumstances are IDEAL?
·       That God cares  more than I do about that person who seems like a lost cause?
·       That someone so “weak” can be the Messiah?
·       That God is stronger than the weakness in myself and others?
·       That such great and wondrous things can be entrusted to me, and to all mankind?
·       That problems are”t really between myself and “that really annoying person,” it’s between me and God?
·       That what is going on inside me (growth, communion with God, virtue) is more important than what’s going on outside of me (trials, etc.)
·       That death has been conquered?
·       That “neither the present nor the future will be able to separate us from the love of God” (Rm 8:38-39)
Let us all pray for the gift of Faith




Saturday, May 28, 2016

MANIFESTO FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE



1.    Check in EVERYDAY. Asking “how was your day?” is the key to being part of your honey’s life. Don’t take that question for granted. Don’t grunt and say okay and move on to what’s for dinner. You married the love of your life so you could be with them every day right? Remember that.

2.    There is no auto-pilot for love. Flirt. Kiss. Hug. Remember that you create your relationship with every text, every wink, every “good morning” and every “can’t wait to see you tonight after work.” Never stop creating and you will never stop loving.

3.    Dream Deeper instead of bigger. Dreaming deeper is asking how you would like to spend your time, not your money, and then finding ways to do more and more of that every day. What makes your heart sing? Do that. Trust me on this, it’s not the car you drive, it’s how you drive it.

4.    Forget “the institution of marriage” and remember “the family of us.” We are all making it up as we go along. And that’s okay. 

5.    Pour love into pain as often as needed. Forgive. Forget. Let go. Move on. Love more. Open your heart to receive love when you need it too. If you aren’t sure how to receive, say so. Use your words. Listen with compassion. Believe that it will all work out in the end. It will.
6.    Remember that feeling you had on your honeymoon? So much joy and laughter and love. Feel that now. Yes, right now. If your honey did something hyper-annoying right before you read this, then just close your eyes and remember the feeling you had back then. Take a deep breath and remember that feeling. How can you bring it forward to today? Take turtle steps if you need to.

7.    Say no to negativity. No criticizing, complaining or eye rolling. Ever. Make requests not complaints. Remember at the end of a request you may get what you asked for. At the end of a complaint all you get is an argument.

8.    Keep the sexy going. Studies show married people have better sex. You are married. The odds are in your favor. Practice. 

9.    Make deposits into your emotional bank account every day. Run little errands, bring coffee, take the dry cleaning. Be kind. Act like a team. Remember you are on the same one.

10.Make space for friends. Your husband does not want to know that your favorite color of lipstick was discontinued. And he definitely does not want to know which star of Downton Abbey you think is the cutest. Even if your husband is your best friend, make time for girlfriends. They can help you keep your marriage stronger.

11.LET GO of the idea of PERFECTION.Expect marriage to be crooked and chipped and weathered. Expect it to grow and change and surprise you. Expect to be disappointed every once in a while. It happens. Nothing is wrong. That is life. Expecting perfection is the root of so much pain. Expect largely imperfect love instead. You can write your own love story and it can be beautiful, even if the curtains are dusty and the plates are chipped.

12.Believe in love and the power of that force to get you through tough times. Love is the highest power of all. Use it.

Saturday, May 7, 2016

Querida Dieta

QUERIDA DIETA


LAS COSAS NO ESTÁN FUNCIONANDO ENTRE NOSOTROS.
NO SOY YO, ERES TÚ.
ERES DESAGRADABLE, ABURRIDA, Y NO PUEDO EVITAR SERTE
INFIEL.